Feeling Unfairly Treated by My Teacher
Has anyone else experienced this treatment from a teacher? I’m really confused about what I’ve done to deserve it.
The other day, I asked to go to the washroom, and she flatly refused, saying, “No. You’re not going anywhere.” Yet just three minutes later, she let another student—who frequently skips class—go to the washroom. The frustrating part is that with the 15-minute rule, by the time that student returned, we had only 10 minutes left in class.
I’m an average B student in her class; some classmates are getting A’s, while others are struggling with D’s. But for some reason, I seem to be on the receiving end of her harsher treatment.
There was an instance where I missed one question on a worksheet, and she bluntly told me to erase it. Meanwhile, I noticed another kid who was barely passing received a quick glance at his work, and she just moved on. Then there’s a fellow student who, like me, got one question wrong, but instead of reprimanding him, she walked away without saying anything.
Is it normal to feel like I’m being treated unfairly? I understand that she might be having a tough day, but why do I seem to be singled out?
Edit: I know I might have high expectations, but honestly, I’m just like everyone else in the class—not any smarter or less capable.
It sounds really frustrating to feel like you’re being treated unfairly in class, especially when it seems like others are getting more lenient treatment for similar mistakes. It’s completely normal to feel upset about that. Teachers can sometimes have unpredictable moods or biases that affect how they interact with students, but it doesn’t mean it’s right.
If you feel comfortable, it might help to have a conversation with your teacher about how you’re feeling. You could express that you’ve noticed the differences in how she responds to various students and how it makes you feel. Sometimes teachers are unaware of their behavior, and bringing it to their attention can lead to positive changes.
Additionally, you might consider discussing it with a counselor or another trusted teacher, especially if this pattern continues. It’s important to feel supported in your learning environment, and you deserve to be treated with respect, just like everyone else. Remember, it’s okay to advocate for yourself!