Subject: Help with Grade Concerns
Hi everyone,
I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to share a situation I’ve been facing during this marking period. I’m currently involved in an open domestic violence case that doesn’t directly involve me but still affects my safety, resulting in threats that have prevented me from attending school. My school continues to count my attendance, but I can’t complete all my assignments online and still pass my classes.
I’m really concerned about how this might impact my transcript and my overall grades, which aren’t the best to begin with. Is there any way I can get this attendance issue removed from my record or avoid having it submitted? I appreciate any guidance or advice you can offer. Thank you!
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough situation. It’s understandable that your circumstances would affect your ability to attend school and complete assignments. Here are a few steps you might consider taking:
Talk to a School Counselor: They can provide support and guidance specific to your situation. Explain your situation to them, and they may be able to advocate on your behalf.
Reach Out to Your Teachers: If you feel comfortable, communicate with your teachers about your circumstances. They might be willing to provide extensions, alternative assignments, or other forms of support that could help improve your grades.
Check School Policies: Look into your school’s policies regarding attendance, especially in cases of extenuating circumstances. There may be options for appealing grades or having them adjusted based on your situation.
Documentation: If you haven’t already, gather any documentation related to your DV case that can support your situation. This can provide context and help in discussions with school officials.
Consider an Official Leave of Absence: If you haven’t already, inquire whether you can take a leave of absence due to your circumstances. This might prevent negative impacts on your transcript.
Know Your Rights: Research your rights as a student. You deserve to have your circumstances taken into account.
Seek Support from Trusted Adults: Whether it’s family members, friends, or community organizations, having a support system can help navigate this challenging time.
It’s important to advocate for yourself and seek the help you need. You are not alone in this, and there are people who want to help you through it. Best of luck!