Feeling overwhelmed by my classmates. There’s this girl who really makes my life difficult. I’m not sure how to handle it or who to confide in. My boyfriend, who doesn’t go to my school, keeps telling me to just ignore her, but it’s not that simple. She pretends everything’s fine, but then suddenly targets me again. I’ve reached out to my teacher, my dad, and anyone else who would listen, but nothing seems to change. I’m feeling really alone and anxious about going to school. I would really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.
Hate the people in my class
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It’s tough to feel alone in a situation like this, especially when you’ve reached out for help and it hasn’t changed anything. Ignoring someone who is tormenting you is often easier said than done, especially if they keep coming after you.
It’s important to keep advocating for yourself. Since speaking to your teacher and dad didn’t lead to any changes, maybe you could consider talking to a school counselor. They can help you navigate this situation more effectively and possibly mediate between you and the girl, or help to create a plan to address her behavior.
Additionally, try to find supportive friends or groups within your school. Surrounding yourself with positive people can make a big difference. If you feel comfortable, you could also document the incidents—keeping a record of what happens could help when you talk to school officials again.
Remember, you have every right to feel safe at school and to seek help until the situation improves. You’re not alone in this, and I hope you find the support you need.