Help with someone at school.

Seeking Advice on a School Situation

Hey everyone, I’ve turned to Reddit for some guidance regarding a situation with someone at school who’s been bothering me and my friends. Let’s call him X. He tends to be pretty annoying, makes strange noises, and is generally not well-liked by most students, including my friend group.

Every lunch, the four of us – who refer to ourselves as “the good people” on Discord – share a table that seats 8. Unfortunately, X joined our group, and now we’re stuck sharing a space with him. Recently, there’s been some drama between X and one of the other students, which means X needs to sit at least two seats away from this person. Instead of figuring something out with us, X decided he would just swap seats with one of my friends, which was frustrating.

Confronting X is pretty much futile; arguments with him drag on for an eternity, making the lunch period dull and uncomfortable for us. Given that X has been a nuisance for quite a while, I decided to email our dean today, requesting that X be moved to a different table. I haven’t heard back yet, and now I’m wondering – am I being selfish for wanting this change? Or are my actions reasonable? I genuinely feel that this will improve things for my friends and me, but part of me feels guilty about the whole situation. Am I in the right here? Also, if you think this question belongs in another subreddit, please let me know!

One Reply to “Help with someone at school.”

  1. It sounds like you’re in a tough situation, and it’s great that you’re seeking advice on how to handle it. It’s definitely not selfish to want a better environment for you and your friends, especially if X is making lunchtime unpleasant for all of you. Your well-being and comfort matter, and it’s reasonable to seek a resolution.

    You mentioned that arguing with X leads to long, unproductive discussions. In that case, reaching out to your dean seems like a smart move, especially if previous attempts to address the situation with X directly have not been effective. It’s important to advocate for yourself and your friends in a respectful way.

    Feeling guilty is a natural response; you care about others and don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, but it’s also important to consider the impact of X’s behavior on your daily life. If this conflict is new and affecting your lunch experience, it’s reasonable to reach out for help.

    If you’re feeling uncertain, you might want to talk to a trusted teacher or counselor at school for more insight. They can help assess the situation further and provide guidance on how to proceed. Remember, you and your friends deserve to enjoy your time at lunch without unnecessary stress. Just make sure to approach the situation thoughtfully and focus on finding a solution rather than placing blame. Good luck!

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