How was/is your experience as an older student living on campus? (undergrad)

What’s your experience like as an older undergraduate student living on campus? I’m 23 and just made the transition from community college to university this semester, staying on campus. So far, everything seems fine, but I haven’t formed any friendships or joined any clubs. My routine consists of attending classes, working 30-40 hours a week, hitting the gym, playing basketball, and meal prepping. Sometimes, I feel out of place due to my age, which makes me hesitant to join clubs. I’m determined to push past that feeling, as I believe it’s the main thing holding me back. Any advice?

One Reply to “How was/is your experience as an older student living on campus? (undergrad)”

  1. It’s totally understandable to feel a bit out of place as an older student on campus, but it’s great that you’re aware of wanting to make a change. One thing to keep in mind is that many students might feel just as apprehensive about making new friends and getting involved, regardless of their age.

    You might find it helpful to look for clubs or organizations that align with your interests. Since you enjoy basketball and working out, maybe you could get involved in a recreational sports league or fitness club—those can be more laid-back and social environments. Additionally, look for events on campus that cater to non-traditional students; many universities offer resources specifically for older students that can help you connect with like-minded peers.

    Another tip is to reach out to your classmates. A simple conversation before or after class can lead to study groups or informal hangouts. You might also consider volunteering for campus events, which could help you meet people outside of your usual circles.

    Remember, everyone is there to learn and grow, and a lot of students are just looking for connections, too. Don’t be too hard on yourself—building friendships can take time, so give yourself grace as you navigate this new chapter. Good luck!

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