I’m really feeling the weight of parental pressure right now. I just shared with my dad that I got a 90 in math, and to my surprise, he dismissed it as a “low grade” and said it wasn’t good enough. Being French, my parents have a pretty low opinion of the American education system, so for them, anything less than a 100 feels like a failure. He even mentioned that my 3.7 GPA isn’t impressive, especially since some students get into Harvard with a 4.0+. Honestly, I’m feeling so discouraged that I don’t even want to put in the effort in math anymore.
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I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It sounds like a lot of pressure to live up to such high expectations. A 90 is still a solid grade, and you deserve to feel proud of your accomplishments, regardless of what others think. It can be tough when parents have different expectations, especially when they come from a different educational background. Remember that your worth isn’t defined by your grades, and it’s important to find value in your hard work and effort. If math isn’t your favorite, maybe taking a break or doing something you enjoy can help you find your motivation again. You’re not alone in feeling this way, and it’s okay to take a step back and focus on your own goals.