I just need a break from people

I really need a break from socializing. I’m getting worn out from all the weekends spent with my roommate’s friends. What started as occasional get-togethers has turned into a regular routine of going out to eat every weekend, and I’m just not up for it anymore. I crave the comfort of a home-cooked meal rather than spending money on takeout all the time.

I know my roommate has more financial freedom because they work overtime and have an easier major, but the push to order food even when I offer to cook feels excessive. While I genuinely enjoy hanging out and appreciate my roommate’s company, it’s starting to interfere with my ability to manage both my time and budget. I’m feeling frustrated that this is becoming a barrier to my studies. I really just need some alone time and space in my apartment on the weekends to focus better. I love spending time with friends, but this constant socializing is making it hard for me to study efficiently.

One Reply to “I just need a break from people”

  1. It sounds like you’re feeling overwhelmed, and that’s completely valid. It can be tough when social commitments start to interfere with your personal time and financial goals, especially when you’re trying to balance everything with school work. It’s important to communicate your needs to your roommate; they might not even realize how much the constant outings are affecting you. Maybe you could propose a compromise, like having a couple of nights a week for just the two of you or even designating certain weekends for quiet time. It’s okay to ask for personal space and to prioritize your own well-being—it doesn’t mean you value your friendship any less! Remember, taking time for yourself can actually help you be more present and engaged when you do hang out with others.

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