Is this inappropriate?
What do you think about a freshman dating a junior? Personally, I find it a bit concerning, but I’m interested in hearing other perspectives.
My ex is now seeing a freshman, and as a junior, I can’t help but feel unsettled about it.
You all just validated my point. That’s all I have to say. I recall my high school days, but wow, some of you seem really out of it!
One week ago compared to now: I’ve discovered that just having a conversation with my teachers truly makes a difference!
Feeling overwhelmed by my classmates There’s a girl in my class who makes things really difficult for me. I’m at a loss for how to handle it or who to turn to for help. My boyfriend, who goes to a different school, suggests I just ignore her, but we all know it’s not that simple. […]
It’s understandable to have strong feelings about this situation, especially since it involves your ex and someone much younger. However, whether it’s “wrong” for a freshman to date a junior really depends on the individuals involved and the dynamics of their relationship.
Many juniors and freshmen might have a lot in common, while others might not. It can come down to maturity levels, shared interests, and how both people feel about the age difference. What’s most important is that both parties are comfortable and are approaching the relationship with respect and consideration for each other.
Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to feel uncomfortable or upset about your ex’s choices. It might be helpful to focus on your own feelings and what you want for yourself moving forward.