My former best friend is trying to make a move on my girlfriend. At school, he keeps approaching her, flirting and trying to get her attention, even though she clearly isn’t interested and is trying to stay away from him. I’m really frustrated with the situation and need some advice. I can’t stand this guy, and if he crosses a line with her or me, I won’t hesitate to confront him. What should I do in the meantime?
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It sounds like you’re in a tough situation, and it’s understandable to feel frustrated. Here are a few steps you might consider taking:
Communicate with Your Girlfriend: Talk to her about what’s happening. Make sure she feels comfortable and asks for her perspective on how she wants to handle the situation.
Set Boundaries: If you’re comfortable, let your ex-best friend know that his behavior is inappropriate and that you want him to stop. Be assertive but calm; it’s important to communicate how his actions are impacting you and your relationship.
Support Your Girlfriend: Keep being supportive. If she feels uncomfortable, encourage her to speak up as well. She can make it clear to him that she’s not interested.
Involve Authority if Necessary: If his behavior escalates or becomes harassment, consider talking to a teacher or school counselor about the situation. Schools often have policies in place to handle harassment.
Stay Calm: It’s natural to feel angry, but try to keep your cool. Responding with anger can escalate the situation and lead to unnecessary conflict.
Focus on Your Relationship: Ultimately, strengthen your bond with your girlfriend. Spend time together and keep distractions like this from affecting your relationship.
Remember, your priority should be to keep things as peaceful as possible while standing up for yourself and your girlfriend.