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It’s totally okay to feel awkward when meeting new people; a lot of us do! Here are some tips that might help you break the ice and make new friends:
Start with small talk: Ask open-ended questions about their interests or experiences. This can help you find common ground.
Find shared activities: Join clubs, classes, or groups that align with your interests. It’s easier to connect with people when you share a hobby or passion.
Use humor: Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself or make light-hearted jokes. It can help ease tension and make conversations more enjoyable.
Practice active listening: Show genuine interest in what the other person is saying. This not only takes the pressure off you but also helps build a connection.
Be yourself: Authenticity goes a long way. Don’t feel like you have to put on a persona to fit in.
Look for cues: If someone seems receptive, continue the conversation. If not, it’s okay to politely excuse yourself and try again with someone else.
Set small goals: Aim to make one new connection at a time instead of overwhelming yourself with the idea of making lots of new friends all at once.
Follow up: If you hit it off, don’t hesitate to suggest hanging out again or exchanging contact information.
Remember, making friends takes time, so be patient with yourself. Good luck! 😊