Worried About Being Held Back Due to Absences
Hey everyone, I’m reaching out for some advice. I’m a sophomore, and this year has been really tough for me. I’m dealing with anxiety and mental health challenges, and transitioning to a new school has made it even harder. I haven’t made any friends yet, largely because the social scene feels cliquey and judgmental, leaving me feeling pretty isolated.
On top of that, the academic pressure here is intense. The school expects a GPA of 3.7 or higher to be considered doing well, and the workload is overwhelming with an average of more than five tests or quizzes each week, plus numerous assignments daily. All of this has turned school into a pretty toxic environment for me, and I find it hard to stay motivated. Honestly, I just count down the days to breaks.
I’m worried I may have hit the 18 unexcused absence limit for being held back. However, I’ve kept up with my coursework and have never received a grade lower than a C. So far, the school hasn’t reached out to my parents or sent any truancy letters.
Should I continue to wait it out, or is there something proactive I should do? If anyone has experienced something similar, I would really appreciate your advice. Thanks! 😭
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough time. It sounds incredibly overwhelming to navigate school with the pressures of a new environment and mental health challenges. First off, know that your feelings are valid and you’re not alone in dealing with these experiences.
Since you’re staying on top of your coursework and maintaining decent grades, that’s a huge accomplishment given the circumstances. It might be helpful to reach out to a trusted teacher or school counselor about what you’re going through. They can provide support and could also help advocate for you if the absences become an issue. They may not even be aware of all the struggles you’re facing.
Additionally, exploring resources for mental health support—whether through your school or outside—might be beneficial. Finding someone to talk to can help you process your feelings and develop strategies to cope with anxiety and loneliness.
As for the absences, keeping an open line of communication with your parents about this situation is crucial. If the school hasn’t addressed your absences, it may be that they’re considering your performance in class rather than just your attendance. It could also allow you to proactively discuss your situation with the school’s administration if needed.
While it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, know that you’re taking steps just by recognizing your struggle and seeking advice. Remember to take things one day at a time, and don’t hesitate to lean on whatever support systems you have. You deserve to feel safe and supported in your school environment. 🌸