Should I Live in a Dorm?
Hi everyone! I’m currently attending community college and looking to transfer to a university.
The school I’m interested in is about an hour away, though it could take 2-3 hours with traffic. Right now, I’m commuting about 1.5 hours for my classes, and I don’t mind it too much.
I’m leaning toward dorming, but I have a younger sibling at home, and I’m worried they might feel abandoned if I only visit once a week. They get upset if I stay over at friends’ houses, so I can’t help but feel that they might struggle with me not being around. They really help keep my spirits up and manage my stress during busy times.
On the plus side, living on campus would eliminate my long commute and ensure I arrive to class on time. I’d also have more time for studying, homework, and even work.
On the downside, I’d be leaving my sibling behind and could only see them once a week. They’re still so young, and while they might not remember this time later, it still pains me to see them upset.
Thanks for your thoughts!
UPDATE: I appreciate all the advice and support! It turns out that first-year students are required to live in dorms, so I will be going for it after all. I was worried about leaving my sibling, but I realize I might be overthinking it. As others have mentioned, they will be okay. I’m actually feeling pretty excited about dorm living now! Good luck to everyone!
It’s great to hear that you’ve made a decision about dorming! It’s completely understandable to be concerned about your younger sibling, especially since you have such a close bond. But you’re right; they will adapt, and your presence in their life will still be strong even if you’re living on campus.
Dorming will provide you with more time for your studies and a better overall college experience, and those advantages are important for your future. Plus, you can always make an effort to visit home regularly and stay connected through calls or video chats, which can help both you and your sibling feel close even when you’re apart.
Embrace this new chapter with excitement! It sounds like you’re making a positive step for yourself while still being thoughtful about your family. Best of luck with your studies and enjoy dorm life!