Strange situation in Paris…
There’s this one really unusual kid at my school who doesn’t have any friends. In three weeks, we’re headed to Paris, and it turns out nobody signed up to share a room with him. He seems to think we’re all great friends (I personally can’t stand him), and he only listed my name. This morning, the teacher pulled me aside and asked if I wanted to be his “roommate,” which felt quite uncomfortable. Despite my better judgment, I reluctantly agreed while trying to hide my displeasure, even though my friends and I had other plans. I don’t want to come off as selfish, but I feel like it’s unfair for one friendless kid to ruin my entire trip. What do you think I should do?
Edit: For those suggesting I’m bullying him, I’m not sure why he listed me if that’s the case. That doesn’t add up. I’m always kind to him and would never mention how irritating I find some of his behavior.
It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and it’s understandable to feel conflicted about the situation. On one hand, it’s great that you’re willing to be compassionate and considerate of his feelings by agreeing to be his roommate. On the other hand, your trip is important to you, and it’s natural to want to enjoy it with your friends.
Maybe you could try talking to your teacher again and explain how you feel. Perhaps there’s a possibility of finding someone else for him to stay with, or even switching rooms if possible. If not, try to approach the situation with an open mindset. Setting clear boundaries about personal space and time during the trip might make the experience more bearable for you. Consider finding small moments to connect with him—it could lead to a better dynamic, and it might even surprise you how much you learn from it. Ultimately, you’re not responsible for his social life, but showing a little kindness could make the trip more enjoyable for both of you. Good luck!