Three-quarters of the way through my degree and feeling lost
I’m nearing the completion of a four-year degree, with almost three years down, and it’s becoming increasingly obvious that this course isn’t right for me. I’m worried about the idea of starting over for another four years, but I also don’t want to finish without a degree.
Honestly, I’m feeling pretty overwhelmed. Does anyone else relate to this, or have advice? Am I just being foolish?
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You’re definitely not an idiot—many people find themselves feeling this way, especially as they get closer to the end of their degree. Here are a few thoughts that might help:
Reflect on Your Goals: Take some time to think about what you really want to do after graduation. Are there aspects of your current course that you enjoy? Sometimes a little tweaking can lead to a fulfilling career.
Consider Minors or Electives: If it’s not too late, see if you can add a minor or take electives that align more closely with your interests. This can give you a chance to explore other areas without starting over.
Talk to Advisors or Professors: They can provide insight and may even have suggestions for paths you hadn’t considered. They might also help you see how your current degree can be useful in other fields.
Look Into Alternative Paths: Many people don’t follow a linear path in their careers. Consider whether there are ways to pivot after graduation, such as additional certifications or practical experiences.
Network: Connect with professionals in fields that interest you. Informational interviews can provide clarity on career options and what steps you might need to take.
Remember, It’s Okay to Change: Your degree doesn’t have to define your entire career. Many people work in fields unrelated to their major. Focus on gaining skills and experiences instead.
Ultimately, finishing your degree can open up doors, even if it doesn’t seem like the perfect fit right now. Hang in there—you’re almost done!