At a Crossroads
I’m currently facing a tough situation at school. I’ve missed over 40 days this year, mainly due to some mental health challenges I was dealing with at the start of the semester. I really wasn’t in a good place back then.
Although my grades are looking pretty good now, I’m struggling in my CTE class because it relies heavily on group work and presentations. Unfortunately, my teammates often don’t show up, which puts all of us at a disadvantage and results in penalties for everyone. I’ve tried discussing this with my counselor, but she has consistently told me there’s no way to switch classes.
I feel stuck; neither school nor my parents seem to understand my situation. They’re threatening to hold me back from graduation because of my absences, and my parents are unwilling to discuss the issues or look for solutions. I’m starting to consider getting my GED, but I worry they’ll react negatively to that choice as well.
What should I do?
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough time. It sounds incredibly frustrating to deal with both the challenges in your CTE class and the pressure from your parents and school about your attendance. Here are a few suggestions that might help you navigate this situation:
Document Everything: Keep a record of your attendance issues, your conversations with your counselor, and any problems with your group work. This documentation can be useful if you need to advocate for yourself further.
Seek Support: If your current counselor isn’t able to help, consider reaching out to another trusted teacher or school administrator. They might have more flexibility or resources to help you address the situation with your CTE class.
Talk to Your Parents: Although it can be difficult, it might help to have an open conversation with your parents about how you’re feeling. Share your struggles, the challenges you’re facing with school, and your desire to find a solution that’s best for you.
Consider Alternatives: If it feels like getting your GED might be a viable option, do some research on it. Speak to school or community resources that can provide more insight into the process and the implications for your future.
Focus on Self-Care: Since you’ve been through some mental health challenges, make sure you’re taking care of yourself. Counseling, talking to friends, or engaging in activities that you enjoy can help you feel more grounded.
Explore Additional Resources: Look for tutoring or extra help for your CTE class, or even online forums or groups where you can find support from other students dealing with similar issues.
Remember, it’s okay to feel overwhelmed, and seeking help is a sign of strength. You deserve to have your concerns heard and addressed. Keep pushing for what you need, and don’t hesitate to advocate for yourself.