GPA Struggles
Hey everyone, I’m a freshman and I wanted to share some thoughts.
I didn’t take AP Human Geography, and I really regret that decision. My weighted GPA is 4.13 (unweighted 4.0), but it seems like those who did take the class have higher GPAs, which has been tough on me mentally. I find myself wishing they would struggle, as it would improve my chances of success. I realize that these feelings aren’t really healthy, but I’m at a loss about how to cope.
I tried to plan my classes for sophomore year to be on the same level as my peers, but many of them switched to AP Bio or AP Psych. I want to change my courses to include AP Psych too, but I feel like I can’t, and it’s frustrating because I just want to keep up. I feel stuck and overwhelmed, especially since I desire a higher GPA and class rank to help me get into a good university—preferably an Ivy League. Right now, their GPAs are higher, and I’m just not sure how to feel about it all.
It sounds like you’re really feeling the pressure to compete academically, and that’s completely understandable, especially as a freshman facing new challenges. It’s tough when you see others in advanced classes and feel like it’s affecting your chances for the future.
Firstly, remember that everyone’s academic journey is different. While it’s natural to compare yourself to others, it’s important to focus on your own growth and achievements. A GPA is just one aspect of your college applications; schools also consider extracurriculars, personal statements, recommendations, and more.
If you want to take AP Psychology, have you considered discussing your concerns with your academic advisor or a trusted teacher? They might be able to help you find a way to adjust your course load or suggest alternative pathways to achieve your goals.
Also, try to shift your focus from wanting others to fail to finding ways to improve your own situation. Maybe you can establish study groups or collaborate with those who are in AP classes. Learning together can provide great support and resources.
Lastly, take care of your mental health. It’s easy to get consumed by rankings and GPAs, but remember to enjoy your high school experience and find balance. Keep working hard, and stay open to opportunities that come your way! You’re still early in your high school career, and there’s plenty of time to make your mark.