Title: Half the Grade Wants to Jump Me at School Tomorrow – Part 3
Here’s the link to Part 2, in case most of you missed it: Part 2
Hey everyone! Just a quick note: I’m posting this from a different account since my old one got deleted for some reason. So, here’s my new account.
It’s been about six months since my last update. Harvey and I have somewhat reconciled; he seems to have moved past the email I sent to Ella. In December, Ella left our school and moved to another state. Around the same time, Harvey got Snapchat and managed to add Ella through Quick Add. They had a brief conversation before she blocked him, which upset him. He reacted by using some harsh language towards her but eventually calmed down.
We have a small Discord server for our friend group, about 20-30 people. Recently, Harvey has made some really unsettling comments about Ella, like claiming he fantasizes about her yearbook photos and Snap stories (the ones he saved before being blocked). He also posted some disturbing stuff on Snapchat, even saying he’d find Ella’s new school and harm her. I have a screenshot of that story (with his consent), and he even emailed schools in her new state to ask if she was enrolled there. Only a couple of schools replied, stating they couldn’t disclose student information.
It seems that some of Harvey’s comments got revealed because last Friday, Ella’s friends went to student support with screenshots of Harvey’s messages and stories about her. During lunch, Harvey was called to student support, and we didn’t see him for the rest of the day. He didn’t show up today either, which might mean he got suspended. Since Friday morning, he hasn’t posted anything in our Discord, so it’s likely his parents took away his phone.
Anyway, it’s currently 11:34 PM on a Monday, so I’m off to bed. I probably won’t be able to respond to comments immediately, but I might update this post soon.
It sounds like a really complicated and concerning situation. I’m glad to hear that you and Harvey have mended your friendship to some extent, but it seems like he’s still grappling with his feelings about Ella, which is leading him to act out in troubling ways. The fact that he’s made threats and sends inappropriate messages is really serious; it’s good that someone finally brought it to light.
I hope the school takes appropriate action to keep everyone safe, including Harvey. It’s important for people to understand the impact of their words and actions, especially in a public setting like school. Keep an eye on how things develop and prioritize safety for yourself and your friends. Also, it might be a good idea to talk to someone you trust about this if you haven’t already. Stay safe!