Housing/Rommate Advice Needed!
Hi everyone! I’m heading off to college soon and have started receiving housing applications, as most of the schools I’ve applied to require freshmen to live in the dorms. I’m still waiting to hear back from CalPoly SLO, which is my top choice, so I haven’t fully explored these applications yet. However, I’m beginning to think about my living situation and would appreciate any advice on what to consider when it comes to choosing a roommate—if I have the option to request or describe one.
Should I go for a roommate of the opposite gender (if that’s an option)? Would it be better to have someone with different interests or maybe someone with similar ones? Should I look for a fellow student in my intended major, or would it make sense to room with a close friend?
I’m just looking for general advice and suggestions based on your experiences. Any tips would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
It’s great that you’re thinking ahead about your housing situation! Choosing a roommate can definitely impact your college experience, so here are some things to consider:
Compatibility: Think about what personality traits would mesh well with yours. Are you more introverted or extroverted? If you enjoy quiet nights studying, a roommate who also values that might be a better fit than someone who loves to party.
Interests: Having some common interests can help foster a friendship, but it’s also beneficial to have someone with different hobbies. This can expose you to new experiences and perspectives.
Study Habits: If you’re focused on academics, consider a roommate who shares that same commitment. This could lead to a more productive living environment.
Gender Consideration: If your college allows coed rooms and you’re comfortable with it, having a roommate of the opposite gender can work well, just be mindful of how it could affect your social dynamic and comfort levels with each other.
Friendship: Living with a close friend can be fun, but it also has risks. If conflicts arise, it can strain your friendship. Make sure both of you are ready for the potential challenges of cohabitation.
Communication: Regardless of who you choose, good communication is key. Discuss your preferences and boundaries early on to avoid any misunderstandings later.
Flexibility: Sometimes you just can’t predict how well you’ll get along with someone until you start living together. Being open and adaptable can help you navigate any potential issues.
Ultimately, go with what feels right for you! Whether you choose someone similar or someone totally different, the most important thing is to communicate openly and set expectations from the start. Good luck with your decision and enjoy your college experience!