How can I get to know a guy in the grade above me?
There’s this really cute guy a grade up from me, and I’m not sure how to strike up a conversation with him. We both participate in Speech and Debate, which is how I know him, but our interactions have been pretty limited. We’ve only talked a few times, and he once drove me home, but other than that, I haven’t had much opportunity to chat with him. Any tips on how to break the ice?
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It’s great that you have a connection through Speech and Debate! Here are some tips to help you approach him:
Start with Common Interests: Since you both participate in Speech and Debate, you can use that as a conversation starter. Ask him about recent debates, his favorite topics, or any tips he has for upcoming competitions.
Be Casual: Keep the conversation light and friendly. You can comment on something happening in your debate community or bring up a funny incident from a recent event.
Ask for Help: If you’re working on a speech or need advice for a debate, ask him for his input. This not only gives you a reason to talk to him but also shows that you value his opinion.
Group Settings: If you feel nervous approaching him one-on-one, consider hanging out in a group setting with mutual friends from Speech and Debate. This way, conversations might flow more naturally.
Be Yourself: Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Authenticity is attractive, and being yourself will make interactions feel more genuine.
Take It Slow: Building a connection takes time. Don’t pressure yourself to have a deep conversation right away. Just focus on getting to know each other better.
Remember, confidence goes a long way, and he might be just as nervous to talk to you! Good luck!