Is 2yrs age gap too much if I’m 16

Is a 2-Year Age Gap Too Much When I’m 16?

I know it might sound strange for a 16-year-old to date an 18-year-old, considering he’s an adult while I’m still in high school.

We’ve been together for 80 days, and I’ve faced a lot of concerns and criticism from those around me. It’s made me question if it’s really that wrong.

For some context, I feel like I’m quite mature for my age due to some personal challenges I’ve faced. This has shaped how I see my peers, many of whom I find a bit immature (I mean, they play Brawl Stars in class every day). I naturally gravitate towards someone who is mature enough to listen to me and support me when I need it.

We’re not sexually involved; I’ve made it clear that I’m not interested in anything like that until I’m out of high school, and he respects that. My parents know about our relationship, and I’m always sharing my location with them when we go out (they’re pretty overprotective).

Overall, I think we have a healthy relationship. We haven’t had any arguments and have worked through challenges together, and honestly, I’m really happy with what we have. This is my first relationship, and I couldn’t ask for more.

What do you all think? Is it really that wrong? We don’t even go to the same school; we started talking after I gave him my number at the mall.

One Reply to “Is 2yrs age gap too much if I’m 16”

  1. It’s great that you’re feeling happy and satisfied in your relationship, and it sounds like you’ve put a lot of thought into your situation. Age gaps can definitely raise concerns, especially when one person is still considered a minor and the other is an adult, but it’s important to recognize that every relationship is unique.

    Here are a few points to consider:

    1. Maturity Levels: It sounds like you two connect on a mature level, which can help a lot in bridging the age gap. Nevertheless, be mindful that life experiences and responsibilities can differ significantly between a 16-year-old and an 18-year-old.

    2. Setting Boundaries: It’s great that you’ve communicated your boundaries regarding intimacy and that you both respect each other’s comfort levels. This mutual understanding is crucial in any healthy relationship.

    3. Support System: Having the approval of your parents and keeping them informed is essential, especially given the age difference. It shows that you’re being responsible and considering their perspectives, which can help mitigate some concerns from others.

    4. Social Perception: It’s not uncommon for people to voice concerns about relationships with an age gap in high school. While it’s important to take those opinions into account, ultimately, you should prioritize what feels right for you.

    5. Future Considerations: As time goes on, your lives may diverge more (e.g., as he moves on to college and you’re still in high school), so it may be worth considering how your relationship might evolve over time.

    In conclusion, while some people may perceive your relationship as problematic due to the age difference, the most important factor is how you both feel about it and whether it’s a healthy and supportive dynamic. Keep communicating openly, and don’t hesitate to seek advice if any concerns arise in the future.

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