Public Service Announcement: College popularity means nothing. Focus on finding your tribe; everyone else is irrelevant.
I’ve noticed a lot of posts expressing feelings of loneliness in college and envy towards those who seem popular.
Let’s be clear: this isn’t high school anymore. Once you step into college, the popularity contest falls away. This is a time for you to discover who you really are and embrace the freedom to be yourself.
Get involved in clubs, join sports—whether officially or informally—volunteer, and connect with those who resonate with you.
And remember, comparing yourself to others only steals your happiness.
Absolutely, I couldn’t agree more! College is such a transformative time, and it’s all about finding the right connections that resonate with who you truly are. The pressure to be part of a popular crowd can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re coming from a high school setting where status mattered more. But remember, the friendships you build in college are often deeper and more meaningful because they’re based on shared interests and values, rather than social status.
Exploring new clubs, activities, and volunteer opportunities is a fantastic way to meet like-minded individuals. Plus, it allows you to learn more about yourself in the process. Embrace the freedom to discover what you enjoy and who you want to surround yourself with!
And you’re so right about comparison—it’s easy to fall into that trap, but it only detracts from your own experiences and happiness. Focus on what brings you joy, and don’t be afraid to carve your own path. Here’s to finding your tribe!