Feeling anxious about possibly being held back due to absences.
Hi everyone. I’m a sophomore, and this year has been really tough for me. I’ve been struggling with anxiety and mental health challenges, especially since I transferred to a new school where I’ve found it hard to make friends. The social atmosphere feels really cliquey and judgmental, and I often feel isolated, leading to tearful moments and facing bullying.
On top of that, the academic pressure is intense here. If you don’t maintain a GPA above 3.7, you’re viewed as underperforming, and the workload is overwhelming—averaging more than five tests or quizzes each week along with a plethora of daily assignments. This has turned school into a toxic environment for me, making it difficult to stay motivated; I find myself just counting down to breaks.
I’ve likely reached the school’s limit of 18 unexcused absences, which puts me at risk of being held back. However, I’ve kept up with my coursework and haven’t received lower than a C in any class. My school hasn’t communicated anything about truancy to me or my parents yet. I’m torn between waiting to see how things unfold or worrying about it constantly. If anyone has experienced something similar, I could really use some advice. Thank you! 😞
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough time. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed, especially with so much pressure from school and the challenges of making new friends. Your mental health is really important, and it sounds like you’re doing your best to stay afloat academically despite everything.
First, it might be helpful to talk to someone at school about how you’re feeling. Whether it’s a guidance counselor, a trusted teacher, or a school psychologist, they might be able to offer support or even accommodations for your situation. Schools often have resources for students dealing with anxiety and can help you navigate through these challenges.
Also, you might want to explore some coping strategies for managing your anxiety. This could include mindfulness techniques, journaling, or even talking to a therapist. Finding small moments of joy or relaxation can also be really beneficial.
As for your absences, it’s concerning to hear about the 18-unexcused absence policy. If you’re worried about being held back, it may be useful to speak directly with your teachers or a school administrator about this to get clarity on your situation. Communication is key here.
Remember, you’re not alone in this, and reaching out for help can make a big difference. Take things one step at a time, and be kind to yourself. You’re doing your best, and that matters. 🌟