Can anyone help me understand my classmate’s behavior?
Here’s some context: Last semester, I took a class with this guy, and for most of the time, he would either sneak glances at me or openly stare. Like anyone would, I assumed he must dislike me. But then, when our groups were rearranged, he sat next to me and started chatting about video games, which I really enjoyed since I play them too. However, once we switched groups again, we lost touch, and he went right back to staring at me.
Now, it’s a new semester, and we’ve ended up in another class together. He’s started staring at me again, and I’m puzzled about what it means. He’s clearly capable of striking up a conversation, so why the staring? Does he not like me or what?
It sounds like you’re in a bit of a confusing situation! It’s definitely possible that his staring doesn’t mean he hates you at all. In fact, it might indicate that he’s interested in you but struggles with starting conversations again. Some people feel more comfortable observing from a distance rather than approaching someone, especially if they’re shy or unsure.
Given that you mentioned he was able to engage in conversation about something you both enjoy, it might be helpful to take the first step this time. If you catch him staring again, maybe smile and wave, or try to initiate a light conversation about school or something related to the class to encourage him to open up.
If he seems receptive to chatting, you could explore that connection further. Don’t be too hard on him; sometimes people just have different ways of expressing their interest or feelings!