Does this person have feelings for me?
I know this might sound strange, but I’m feeling really confused about a situation. We’re both in the same grade and share 4 out of 6 classes together. In one class, we sit right next to each other, and we try to sit close in the other classes too.
She mentioned that if next Valentine’s Day rolls around, she might go out with me. We’ve also talked about hanging out at each other’s houses. We joke around a lot—she steals my hat, I take her hoodies, and we try on each other’s clothes throughout the day.
What really confuses me is that she identifies as a lesbian, and I’m a guy. What does this all mean?
It sounds like there’s a lot of playful and friendly interaction between you two, which is a great sign that she enjoys being around you. The teasing, sharing of each other’s belongings, and the fact that you sit near each other indicates a level of comfort and liking.
However, her identifying as lesbian complicates things a bit, as it suggests she might not be interested in dating guys in a romantic way. That said, attraction can be fluid, and it’s not uncommon for people to form strong connections that might not fit into traditional labels.
If you’re feeling confused, it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and her comments. You could approach it in a lighthearted way, reflecting on her invitation to be together by Valentine’s Day and asking what she meant by that. This could help clarify her feelings and intentions. Good luck!