Struggling to Share Bad News
I’m really anxious about telling my parents that I didn’t pass my math class this year. It’s my senior year, and I think I need this credit to graduate. As an Asian student, I often face jokes at school and even from my family about being the “stupid Asian.” I feel like I’ve been overwhelmed by the pressure, and now I’m not sure how to handle this situation. What should I do?
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Looking into exchange programs? I’m starting to research colleges and, honestly, I’m not keen on staying in the U.S. I’m considering a specialized major, possibly in music development or voice, but I’m unsure if those programs offer exchange opportunities. I’d love to explore the world a bit during college, if that makes sense. Also, does […]
I’m struggling to find focus this semester, and despite my best efforts, I’m really falling behind. My mental health has been a major factor, as I’m currently unmedicated, which makes it even harder for me to concentrate. On top of that, I sometimes experience memory issues that prevent me from keeping track of what I […]
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of pressure, both at school and at home. Here are some steps you might consider taking when talking to your parents:
Choose the Right Time: Find a quiet moment when your parents are calm and can give you their full attention.
Be Honest: Share your feelings and be straightforward about what happened. It’s okay to admit that you struggled.
Take Responsibility: Acknowledge your part in the situation, but also explain any challenges you faced. This helps show that you’re taking this seriously.
Discuss Your Options: Let them know that you’re looking for solutions, such as retaking the class, summer school, or getting a tutor. Showing initiative can help ease their worries.
Express Your Feelings: Share how you’ve been feeling under pressure. They may not fully understand the weight of this, so it’s important to communicate that.
Ask for Their Support: Let them know that you need their help during this tough time. They may surprise you with their understanding.
Remember, it’s okay to struggle, and asking for help shows strength. You’re not alone in this, and there are always paths forward. Good luck!