The guy I’ve been into just hooked up with someone else, and I’m seriously heartbroken. I can’t believe how much this is affecting me. I always knew deep down that I didn’t have a real chance with him, but hearing that he chose someone totally different—blonde and white—really stings. I thought I might have been pretty enough, but clearly, I was wrong. Honestly, this feels crushing.

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s completely normal to feel hurt and upset when someone you like makes choices that are hard to accept. Remember, it doesn’t reflect your worth or beauty. You are unique and valuable just as you are, and it’s okay to take time to process your feelings. Surround yourself with supportive friends and focus on self-care right now. You’ll get through this!