How was/is your experience as an older student living on campus? (undergrad)

What has your experience been like as an older student living on campus (undergrad)?

I’m 23 and just transferred from a community college to a university this semester, where I’m living on campus. So far, everything seems fine, but I haven’t made any friends or joined any clubs. My routine mostly consists of attending classes, working 30-40 hours a week, hitting the gym, playing basketball, and meal prepping. Sometimes, I feel out of place in this environment, which holds me back from getting involved in clubs. I’m trying to push through that feeling, as I believe it’s the main obstacle in my way.

One Reply to “How was/is your experience as an older student living on campus? (undergrad)”

  1. It’s totally understandable to feel that way as an older student, especially when moving to a new environment like a university campus. Many students experience a bit of a gap in age, but remember that you’re not alone—there are other older students out there who might be feeling the same way!

    A few tips that might help you connect and get more involved:

    1. Focus on Shared Interests: Since you enjoy playing basketball, consider looking for a club or intramural team that aligns with that interest. You might find that others in similar situations join as well and it can be a great icebreaker.

    2. Attend Events: Check out any events, talks, or workshops happening on campus. These gatherings can provide a casual way to meet new people, and you might be surprised how friendly and welcoming your peers can be.

    3. Look for Non-Traditional Student Groups: Many universities have organizations specifically for non-traditional or older students. This can help you find others who share similar experiences and challenges.

    4. Don’t Overthink It: Sometimes, just introducing yourself to someone in class or at the gym can lead to a new friendship. It doesn’t have to be complicated—often, a simple “Hi” can go a long way.

    5. Give It Time: Building connections can take a little while, so don’t feel too stressed if it doesn’t happen right away. Just being around people and participating in activities is a step in the right direction.

    Remember, your experiences and perspectives are valuable, and being slightly older can actually be an asset in building relationships. Keep putting yourself out there, and you may surprise yourself with how quickly you can make connections! Good luck!

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