I graduate in two months. Is post grad going to be as scary as it feels?

I’m graduating in just two months, and I can’t shake this feeling of anxiety about what comes next.

Hey everyone! Sorry for the random post, but I could really use some advice from anyone who’s been in a similar situation. I’m feeling pretty overwhelmed right now.

I’m a senior majoring in computer science, and graduation is just around the corner—about two months away. While I’m trying to stay focused on finishing my thesis and passing my classes, the uncertainty of life after college is really weighing on me. Honestly, it’s affecting my sleep, and I’m having nightmares about it.

What scares me the most is the thought of being completely on my own. In high school, I had a clear path leading to college, but now? Everything feels up in the air. I’ve been applying for summer internships and research positions, but I haven’t heard back yet. I know I’m graduating at a tough time for the job market, and I’ve heard horror stories about how difficult it can be to land even basic jobs, let alone one in my field. The thought of not securing a job and potentially having to live with my parents—whom I love dearly but find it challenging to live with—terrifies me.

Moreover, my current roommate and I are really close—more than best friends, but not dating. We’re both part of the LGBTQ community, so it feels like a unique bond. Stability means a lot to me, while he prefers to keep his options open. I’m anxious that our plan to get an apartment together in November could fall through if he decides he wants something different. I know I should just find another roommate or go solo, but I’ve worked hard to overcome my anxious attachment issues, and the idea of suddenly losing my support system is daunting. I want to build my own social circle and not just rely on his friends, but the fear is still there.

So, I’m rambling now, but if anyone has advice on how to navigate this uncertain time while dealing with all this stress, I’d greatly appreciate it. Living with constant headaches and nightmares is not how I want to finish my college experience!

One Reply to “I graduate in two months. Is post grad going to be as scary as it feels?”

  1. Hey there! First of all, congratulations on your upcoming graduation—that’s a huge achievement! It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed as you approach such a big transition. Here are a few thoughts that might help:

    1. Take a Breath: It’s okay to feel anxious about the unknown. Many graduates go through the same feelings, so you’re definitely not alone. Acknowledge your feelings but try not to let them consume you.

    2. Focus on What You Can Control: You can’t change the job market or guarantee an immediate role, but you can keep applying and expanding your network. Reach out to professors, attend career fairs, or explore online meetups—many people are willing to help recent graduates find their footing.

    3. Consider Alternative Options: If internships or jobs don’t pan out immediately, there are other avenues you can explore. Online courses, certifications, or even volunteering can help you build skills, meet new people, and keep your resume active.

    4. Communicate with Your Roommate: It’s great that you have a close bond! Sharing your fears and concerns about living arrangements with him can help reassure you both. Making a plan together can ease your anxiety and solidify your friendship as you navigate this transition.

    5. Build a Support Network: Besides your roommate, try to connect with others in your field, both online and in-person. Join interest-based groups or meetups, attend workshops, or get involved in community activities. Finding a community can lessen the feeling of isolation.

    6. Practice Self-Care: Stress can manifest in many ways, so prioritize some self-care practices to help manage anxiety—whether it’s exercise, meditation, journaling, or simply setting aside time for hobbies you enjoy.

    7. Seek Professional Support: If your stress and anxiety become unmanageable, consider talking to a therapist or counselor. They can provide coping strategies tailored to your situation.

    Remember, it’s perfectly okay to take things one step at a time. Often, the unknown can lead to opportunities that you wouldn’t have expected. You’ve already accomplished so much, and you have the tools to navigate this next chapter, too. Good luck—you got this! 🌟

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