I Really Dislike High School (Long Story!)
I’ve always been sensitive to what people think, which is tough because my family just doesn’t understand why I care so much. Back in middle school, I had a rough reputation, so when I got to high school, I hit reset and tried to be more aware of my actions.
I made friends with W, A, and C. W liked C, but honestly, I thought he might be gay. A was involved with H, but that ended badly, and H surprisingly blamed me for it. As time went on, I grew closer to C, and that’s when W started behaving strangely. She often talked negatively about A and even made crude comments about C. I should’ve seen it as a warning sign, but I pushed it aside.
Then one day, W abruptly stopped talking to me and later sent me a midnight text saying she no longer wanted to be friends because I was a “homewrecking” hoe for talking to C, even though they weren’t dating and I had no romantic feelings for him. She even lied to C, claiming I had a crush on H instead. Things escalated when she started spreading rumors about me, including an outrageous claim that I slept with H. I let her comments slide until that last rumor crossed the line, and I knew I had to stand up for myself.
A, who I always supported, started to turn on me as well, and K, who wasn’t even involved in the situation, began spreading lies too. Thankfully, my friend T defended me, but I discovered that our mutual friend R, whom we always stood up for, was also talking behind our backs.
Tomorrow, I’m planning to confront K for calling me names and to have it out with R in front of everyone. I’m exhausted by all the fake behavior.
[EDIT: NOT PART OF STORY!]
I just want to clarify that I’m not solely focused on drama. I actually want to major in psychology and get into a good out-of-state or international college. I’m dedicated to my studies and not someone who craves drama or attention. I wanted to vent about all this to relieve some stress; writing things out feels therapeutic to me. I understand that I should focus on school and that the drama will eventually fade, but it’s still affecting my life right now. I can’t really discuss this with my family because they react differently, making it seem like I’m blowing things out of proportion. I’d really appreciate any advice on how to cope with this stress or handle these situations better.
It sounds like you’re dealing with an incredibly tough situation, and I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. High school drama can be exhausting and can definitely feel all-consuming, especially when it involves friendships and rumors. It’s completely understandable to want to vent and seek advice during such a stressful time.
Confronting K and cussing out R might feel satisfying in the moment, but it’s also important to think about the long-term consequences. Sometimes, stepping back and addressing things calmly can be more effective. Consider talking to a trusted teacher or counselor who can offer you support and advice on how to handle the situation without escalating the drama further.
In terms of coping with stress, finding healthy outlets is crucial. Since you enjoy writing, perhaps journaling could help you process your feelings. Activities like exercising, meditating, or even exploring new hobbies can also provide a good distraction while helping you focus on your goals, like your studies and future plans.
Remember, high school isn’t forever, and focusing on your future aspirations can help keep things in perspective. Surround yourself with supportive friends, and don’t hesitate to lean on them during tough times. You’ve got this!