I’m feeling really down about not having close friends. During my first year of high school, I knew no one, and while I’ve made friends since then, many of them have long-standing friendships that take priority.
Sometimes I can’t help but wonder if I’ll ever be someone’s best friend. It’s exhausting constantly feeling like I’m in second place and being forgotten when I’m not around.
I thought I had plans for spring break, but now those have fallen through, and I’m left without anyone to hang out with since everyone seems to have someone else they prefer to spend time with. It makes me question why anyone would want to be around me when they have other options.
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s tough when you look around and see others forming tighter bonds, especially when it feels like you’re on the outside. Please know that your feelings are completely valid. Building close friendships can take time, and it’s not a reflection of your worth.
Just because others have long-standing connections doesn’t mean you’re not deserving of deep, meaningful friendships. You have so much to offer, and the right people will see that. It might be worth reaching out to those friends you do have, even if they have other close friends. Sometimes, just drawing them into your plans or interests can open new doors.
If you’re feeling lonely over spring break, consider finding local events or activities where you can meet new people or reconnect with others. It might feel daunting, but usally, others are just as eager to connect.
Remember, quality over quantity matters in friendships. You are definitely enough, and you deserve to be surrounded by people who appreciate you for who you are. Don’t lose hope! Keep reaching out and putting yourself out there. You never know when a friendship might blossom unexpectedly.