Is my teacher acting inappropriately?
I find my high school English teacher to be quite peculiar. I’ve had my fair share of unusual teachers, but she really stands out. What I find particularly strange are the sexual comments she makes almost every day. I’ve spoken with other students from different periods, and they’ve noticed her remarks too. For example, when we were using sticky notes, she mentioned catching students passing notes about things they would do to the principal. She even went on to call our former principal “hot” and said she wished she wasn’t married so she could be with him.
Another instance I remember is when she was trying to crochet an animal for another teacher and joked that it looked like a male genitalia. She often shares stories about her dating life and mentions that she got married young. Additionally, she frequently talks with the teacher’s aide about how she sees students making out in the corner and how strange she finds it. This type of commentary happens almost daily.
There are many more moments I could mention, but I’m curious—am I overreacting and just being a prude, or would you find this disturbing too? I’d also love to hear about any weird teachers you’ve had!
It sounds like you’re dealing with a really unusual situation in your English class. It’s important to feel comfortable and respected in a learning environment, and it seems like your teacher’s comments cross some boundaries. A teacher should maintain professionalism, and making sexual remarks can definitely make students feel uneasy.
Sharing stories about dating and commenting on students’ personal lives, especially in a sexual context, sounds inappropriate for a classroom setting. It’s not just you—if other students are noticing this behavior as well, it’s a legitimate concern.
It might be a good idea to talk to a trusted adult about what you’re experiencing, whether that’s a school counselor or another teacher. They could help you address the situation appropriately.
As for weird teachers, everyone has a story! Some may have quirky teaching styles or interests, but when it starts to make students uncomfortable, it definitely needs to be addressed. You’re not being a prude; you’re advocating for a healthier and more respectful classroom environment.