I lost a close friend, and I can’t shake the feeling that it could have been prevented. I reported to the counselors that they were struggling with suicidal thoughts and mental health issues, and while they assured me they would look into it, nothing ever happened. Now, my friend is gone, and I feel helpless. It’s hard to process the fact that, because they weren’t popular or well-connected, many people seemed indifferent.
I’m trying to move forward, but I feel an overwhelming anger when I think about what could have been if my concerns had been taken seriously. He was only 14. I often find myself wishing I could hold the school accountable, or even share our story with the media, out of sheer frustration. I think about all the other students who also slipped through the cracks, becoming just another name in the yearbook. It’s painful to think how many lives could have been saved if the system had worked.
I’m really sorry to hear about your friend. It’s incredibly painful to go through something like this, especially when you feel like you tried to help but weren’t heard. It’s natural to feel a mix of anger, grief, and frustration. You cared enough to reach out, and it’s devastating that the system let you and your friend down.
It might be helpful to talk to someone who can help you process these feelings, like a trusted adult or a mental health professional. They can provide support and guidance as you navigate this difficult time. You’re not alone in your emotions, and it’s important to find healthy ways to express and work through them.
Consider channeling your feelings into something constructive, like raising awareness about mental health and the importance of listening to students. You could start a conversation in your school or community about how to better support those in need. Your voice matters, and you never know how many lives you could impact by sharing your friend’s story.