Advice Needed for a Senior
Hey everyone,
I’ll keep this brief but detailed.
I’m a 17-year-old high school senior, and I’ve just been told by my school that I won’t be graduating this year. They asked if I’d consider returning for another year, but I said no. I really don’t want to go back for another year of in-person classes—it’s just too much for me. Dropping out isn’t an option right now because of where I live.
To give some context, I’m from Florida and I’m eager to move back, but another year of school would delay that. I’ve started my own racing business, work for my dad, and have already researched job opportunities in Florida. So, my first question is: is it okay to not want to go back for another year?
My second question is about schoolwork. I still pay attention in class and listen to the lessons, but I’ve realized that I don’t really learn much from taking notes or working with the teachers. I actually prefer to figure things out on my own. So, is it alright for me to stop focusing on the paperwork?
Thanks for reading!
Hey there! It sounds like you’re going through a tough situation, so I totally get wanting some clarity.
Is it alright to not want to go back another year? Absolutely, it’s your life and your decision. If you feel that staying in school will hold you back from pursuing your business and career goals, it makes sense to consider other options. Just be sure to weigh the pros and cons carefully. Check what your options are for obtaining a diploma or GED, as those could be important for future employment or education.
Is it alright to not do the school work anymore? In a way, yes—if you feel that the traditional school system isn’t serving your goals, then it’s understandable to disengage to some extent. However, make sure you’re still meeting any necessary requirements for your diploma, if applicable. If you’re listening and learning in your own way, that’s valid, but consider using alternative methods to gain the knowledge you need for your business and future jobs, like online courses or hands-on experience.
Ultimately, trust your instincts and make the decisions that are right for you. Just make sure you have a solid plan moving forward! Good luck!