Is it worth it to make friends at this stage in my life?
I’ve had my share of “friends” in high school, and many turned out to be pretty inconsiderate or just plain annoying with their jokes (you know the type—like those cringeworthy miner/minor jokes).
I often find myself enjoying my solitude; it’s peaceful not having to deal with irritating people. But at the same time, I sometimes wish I had at least one laid-back person to chat with regularly.
Should I continue trying to make friends, or should I just concentrate on myself for now?
It sounds like you’ve had some frustrating experiences with friends, and it’s totally understandable to feel hesitant about making new connections. Focusing on yourself and your interests is definitely important, and being a “loner” can be perfectly okay if that suits you.
However, having a good friend or two can really enrich your life, even if it takes time to find the right people. You might consider looking for friends in spaces that align with your interests or values, like clubs, classes, or online communities where you can connect with like-minded individuals.
It’s all about finding the right vibe—there are definitely people out there who share your sense of humor and interests and will appreciate you for who you are. If you feel comfortable, give it a shot, but remember it’s also perfectly fine to enjoy your own company. Balance is key!