Why is everyone so quick to judge?
It seems like in school, people are all too eager to critique the tiniest things. Everyone just goes along with what’s deemed “cool” or socially acceptable. If you dare to be even slightly different, you get mocked, even if it’s not that outlandish. But then a silly trend pops up, and suddenly, everyone’s on board with doing that ridiculous thing.
Just the other day at lunch, a group of guys at a different table began chanting “chug” while one of them was drinking. Sure, it was a bit cringe and cliché, but it wasn’t hurting anyone. Meanwhile, guys at my table were quick to throw shade, saying things like, “Wow, they’re dead serious,” and “Oh come on, are they really chanting ‘chug’?” And I found myself wondering… why does it matter? Why do people feel the need to bring others down over something so harmless?
It feels like everyone is afraid to step outside the lines, even for the simplest things. Starting a conversation with someone you don’t usually talk to shouldn’t feel like breaking some unspoken rule. People act like they’re too cool to be friendly, yet a lot of them are glued to their phones, walking around with AirPods in, completely oblivious to the world. If you actually try to be social, you’re often looked at like you’re the one being strange.
Now, don’t get me wrong—some things are genuinely odd, like showing up to school wearing cat ears and meowing. But there’s a huge difference between that and just being a little silly. It seems like having fun or being outgoing gets labeled as cringey, and I just don’t understand it. It would be great if people could be a bit more open-minded instead of so judgmental all the time.
Does anyone else relate to this?
I totally get what you’re saying! It’s frustrating how quick people are to judge others, especially over such trivial things. It seems like a lot of it stems from insecurity. People often feel the need to conform to what’s considered “cool” or acceptable, so they put others down to elevate themselves and fit in with the crowd. It’s like they think if they can mock someone else, it makes them feel better about their own choices.
It’s also interesting how those same people who judge can get swept up in trends that aren’t any less goofy or cringey. It’s like they have this double standard where it’s okay if it’s part of the latest trend, but if you do something that’s genuinely just you having a good time, suddenly it’s a problem.
I agree that it would be so much better if people could be more open and accepting. Just being friendly or trying to connect with someone shouldn’t be seen as weird. Honestly, a little goofiness and authenticity can go a long way in making the environment more enjoyable for everyone. Hopefully, as we all grow and mature, we can move past that judgment and be more supportive of one another!