Am I at risk of being suspended?
There’s this guy at my school who used to like me, and it’s become really uncomfortable. Last year, when I told him I didn’t want to date him, he started being racist, sexist, and just downright awful toward me. I often catch him staring, and he constantly tries to invade my personal space or touch me.
If I reach my breaking point and end up punching him, would that lead to suspension? I know I’d face consequences and a serious talking-to, but could it go on my permanent record?
Also, I realize this is a personal issue, but he’s been spreading rumors that I’m the one being bullied by him and his friend, even though I rejected both of them.
It’s really concerning to hear about what you’re going through. Your safety and comfort at school should always be a priority. If you feel threatened or uncomfortable because of someone’s behavior, it’s important to talk to a trusted adult, like a teacher or school counselor.
Regarding your question about punching him, while it might feel like a justified reaction to defend yourself, violence often leads to consequences such as suspension or other disciplinary actions, especially since most schools have zero-tolerance policies for physical fighting. It would be better to document his behavior and report it to your school. They can take appropriate action to address the situation and help you feel safer without you risking suspension or having something negative on your record.
Also, dealing with rumors can be really tough, but try to stay focused on your truth and who you are. If needed, you can talk to someone at school about these rumors too. You’re not alone in this, and there are people who can help you navigate it.