Does anyone have experience with starting grad school (masters) a couple years after their undergrad?

Has anyone here started grad school (master’s program) a couple of years after completing their undergraduate degree?

Hi, I’m seeking some advice and motivation to consider pursuing my master’s.

I’m a 26-year-old male and graduated a little over two years ago with a Bachelor of Science in Psychology. Initially, I aimed to gain research experience post-graduation in order to pursue a PhD. I finished my degree in just two years and felt I could use those extra two years to work and gather that necessary experience.

Unfortunately, I spent four frustrating months after graduation searching for research assistant positions. During that time, I struggled financially—I was fortunate my landlord allowed me to defer rent and I even had to donate plasma to get by. Eventually, I hit a breaking point and had to accept a well-paying job, but it’s not aligned with my interests or field.

Now, I find myself unhappy and unfulfilled in this job. Although I’m grateful to have work, especially in the current economic climate, I can’t shake the feeling of missing my college days.

So, here’s my question: has anyone had experience going to grad school 2-3 years after their bachelor’s? I can’t help but feel anxious about it. It feels daunting, and I sometimes doubt my academic skills; I recently revisited my capstone papers and was amazed I wrote them! I fear I might feel out of place among peers who seem more prepared, and I worry about wasting anyone’s time, including my own.

Any advice would be incredibly helpful!

One Reply to “Does anyone have experience with starting grad school (masters) a couple years after their undergrad?”

  1. It’s completely normal to feel apprehensive about returning to school after a few years away, but it’s great that you’re considering pursuing your master’s! Many people take time off between undergrad and grad school for various reasons, and you’re not alone in this experience. Here are a few points to consider that might help ease your concerns:

    1. Life Experience Counts: Your two years of work experience can actually be a valuable asset in grad school. It gives you a different perspective that can enrich discussions and group work. Many students come back to school after some time in the workforce, and your unique insights will likely be appreciated.

    2. Just Like Riding a Bike: While you might feel rusty on your academic skills, remember that the foundational knowledge you gained in undergrad is still there. Graduate studies will challenge you, but they also often build on what you already know. Plus, you’ll have your passion for psychology to fuel your motivation.

    3. Connect with Faculty and Peers: Don’t hesitate to reach out to potential advisors or professors in programs you’re interested in. Many professors love working with students who are returning to academia with a sense of purpose. Also, bonding with peers who share your interests can help ease the transition.

    4. Start Slow: Consider taking one or two classes to ease back into the academic routine before diving into a full-time program. This can help rebuild your confidence and acclimate you to the demands of grad school.

    5. Focus on Your Goals: Remind yourself why you wanted to pursue a master’s in the first place—whether it’s a step towards a PhD or advancing your career. Keeping your end goal in mind can serve as a motivator through the challenges.

    6. Embrace the Journey: It’s okay to feel scared or uncertain—it’s part of taking a big step. Remember that growth often comes from stepping out of your comfort zone.

    Trust yourself, give yourself grace, and you might find that returning to academia is an incredibly rewarding decision. Good luck, and remember to reach out to those around you for support; you’ve got this!

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