embarrassed to take a leave of absence

Struggling with the idea of a leave of absence

I’m a 22-year-old data science student, and I find myself in my fifth year with no clear end in sight. For the past year and a half, I’ve been caught in a cycle of failing and retaking courses. I’ve thought about taking a leave of absence, but I’m embarrassed to do so since I’m already behind in my graduation timeline. So instead, I’ve just pushed through. I used to earn good grades—mostly As and a few Bs—but now I’m just scraping by. I feel like I’m not retaining anything from my classes anymore.

Right now, I’m overwhelmed by a mix of emotions. I’m starting to question whether I even enjoy my major or want to pursue a career in this field. Honestly, I’m feeling lost and uncertain about what I truly want.

One Reply to “embarrassed to take a leave of absence”

  1. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and embarrassed about your situation, but it’s important to remember that taking a leave of absence doesn’t mean you’re giving up—it can actually be a courageous step towards finding clarity and resetting your focus. Many students face challenges during their academic journey, and it’s okay to seek help when you need it.

    It sounds like you’ve been under a lot of pressure, and it’s completely normal to question your path, especially when you’re not enjoying your studies as you once did. Before making a decision, consider reaching out to an academic advisor or a career counselor. They can help you explore your feelings about your major and the potential paths ahead.

    Taking time off could give you the space to reflect on what you truly want, regain some confidence, and recharge your enthusiasm. Remember, your mental health and well-being are just as important as your academic achievements. You’re not alone in feeling this way, and many people have come out stronger and more focused after taking some time for themselves. Whatever you choose, be kind to yourself during this process.

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