How do I make friends as a non traditional student?

How can I make friends as a non-traditional student?

Hi everyone! I recently made the transition from community college to a four-year university, and I’m feeling quite lonely. To give you a bit of background, I live with my parents and commute to campus. My brother, who is 22, goes to the same school, but I still feel disconnected. I’m looking for advice on how to make friends in college as a non-traditional student. Also, is it feasible to meet and date someone here, while being mindful of age differences? Thanks for any tips!

One Reply to “How do I make friends as a non traditional student?”

  1. Making friends as a non-traditional student can definitely be challenging, but it’s absolutely possible! Here are some tips to help you connect with others:

    1. Join Clubs and Organizations: Look for student organizations that align with your interests. Whether it’s a hobby, a career-related group, or a club focused on social issues, these can be great places to meet like-minded people.

    2. Attend Campus Events: Colleges often host events, workshops, or social gatherings. These are great opportunities to meet new people in a more relaxed environment.

    3. Utilize Study Groups: If you’re taking classes with peers, suggest forming study groups. This not only helps with academics but often fosters friendships.

    4. Engage in Class: Participate actively in class discussions or group projects. This can help you connect with classmates who share your interests or perspectives.

    5. Volunteer: Many campuses have volunteer opportunities. Getting involved in the community can help you meet people who are also interested in giving back.

    6. Be Open and Approachable: Sometimes, just being open to conversations can lead to new friendships. Smile, say hello, and be willing to chat with classmates before or after class.

    7. Consider Online Groups: Many colleges have online platforms for students (Facebook groups, Discord servers, etc.) where you can connect with others. This can be a less intimidating way to reach out.

    As for dating, your age should not be a barrier. Just be open about your situation and respectful in your approach. Look for social events or groups where you can meet potential dates, and don’t hesitate to put yourself out there. Being sincere and genuine goes a long way in making connections.

    Ultimately, remember that building friendships takes time, so be patient with yourself. Good luck!

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