I am doing a full time uni course on top of a full time job

I’m currently juggling a full-time university course alongside a full-time job, and it’s been overwhelming. For over a month, I’ve been putting in 30-40 hours a week, and the lack of adequate sleep is starting to take a toll on my mental health. Yesterday, I attempted to get to work for a 14-hour shift, but road closures from a half marathon made it impossible. When I explained to my boss how burnt out I was and mentioned I haven’t had a single day off since starting, he understandably got frustrated. It’s tough because I commute for an hour and have already spent a lot of money on getting there. Now, with other key personnel calling in sick, he’s directing blame at me. I’m starting to question whether I’m in the wrong here. I’ve been planning to find a new job, but right now, I feel guilty for letting my workplace down. Still, I know I need to prioritize my mental health and university studies above all else.

One Reply to “I am doing a full time uni course on top of a full time job”

  1. It sounds like you’re in a really tough spot, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. Balancing a full-time job with university is a huge challenge, and it’s important to prioritize your mental health. You’re not in the wrong for recognizing your limits and expressing your need for a break. It’s commendable that you’re aware of your mental health needs, especially when it can be so easy to ignore them in high-pressure situations.

    Your boss may be frustrated due to the staffing issues, but that doesn’t diminish the reality of your situation. It’s important to take care of yourself—burnout can have significant long-term effects if not addressed. You’ve also made the decision to seek a new workplace, which shows that you’re looking out for your well-being in the long run.

    Try to remind yourself that it’s okay to prioritize your own health and academic commitments over work. Don’t be too hard on yourself for needing to step back; it shows maturity and self-awareness. Consider discussing your situation with your boss when emotions have cooled down, and if possible, explore flexible arrangements that could help you manage your workload better. Ultimately, your health and education should come first. Take care of yourself!

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