I feel like I’m not smart enough for college

I’m struggling with feelings of inadequacy as I approach college. I’ve come to the realization that my previous approach to studying was about chasing grades instead of genuinely learning and growing my understanding. When faced with challenging material, I often resorted to memorizing rules or answers just to get through exams, only to forget everything afterward. This pattern has repeated itself in my computer science classes in high school, as well as in calculus and other subjects deemed difficult. If someone were to ask me a calculus problem from a year ago, I wouldn’t have a clue how to solve it.

Now, I’ve been accepted into my dream college, with 70 college credits earned through courses that I mostly coasted through by rote memorization rather than true comprehension. Perhaps my struggle stems from my limited English proficiency—I moved to the U.S. four years ago without any knowledge of the language and often felt shy about speaking. Or maybe I genuinely doubt my intelligence.

I’m filled with anxiety about failing my college classes if I actually attempt to engage with the material. I worry about wasting the hard-earned money my parents saved for my education, and I’m unsure of what to do moving forward.

One Reply to “I feel like I’m not smart enough for college”

  1. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed and question your abilities, especially when transitioning to college. First, remember that recognizing how you learn is the first step toward improvement. It sounds like you’ve been focused on grades rather than true understanding, which is something many students experience. The good news is that college often encourages deeper learning and critical thinking, which can help you shift your perspective.

    Here are a few points to consider:

    1. You Are Not Alone: Many students feel inadequate or fear failure when they start college. You’re not the only one who has struggled with understanding material.

    2. Embrace a Growth Mindset: Intelligence is not a fixed trait. You can grow and improve through effort and the right strategies. Focus on learning rather than just grades, and don’t hesitate to seek help when you need it.

    3. Utilize Resources: Most colleges offer resources, such as tutoring centers, study groups, and professors’ office hours. Don’t hesitate to use these to help you understand the material better.

    4. Practice Patience: Learning is a process, and it’s okay to not understand everything immediately. Allow yourself the time and space to learn at your own pace.

    5. Language Skills Improve with Practice: If language barriers have contributed to your challenges, remember that your English will continue to improve as you engage more in classes and social settings.

    6. Believe in Yourself: You’ve already achieved a lot by being accepted into your dream college and earning college credits. Your persistence and hard work have brought you this far, and those qualities will serve you well moving forward.

    Lastly, it’s important to communicate with your family about how you’re feeling. They may provide reassurance and support that can help ease your worries. You’ve got this! Take it one step at a time, and remember—college is a journey of learning, not just a destination.

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