I’m feeling overwhelmed and scared. I’m 18 and currently attending HCC. I managed to pass most of my classes last semester, except for a math class designed for those who didn’t pass the TSIA.
Now that I’m in my second semester, I’m struggling and on the brink of failing all my classes.
For U.S. History, it’s not that I can’t do the work—I actually enjoy history—but I struggle to keep track of assignments like tests and essays.
In math, it’s a similar issue, but on top of that, I’m really struggling with the material. I have notes from my last math class, but I still forget to complete the assignments on Canvas.
And then there’s Composition II. I’m really struggling with writing; I barely passed Composition I, and while my teacher is nice, he has strict grading standards. Once again, I find myself forgetting to submit assignments on Canvas.
I need advice on what to do. I’m feeling desperate and don’t want to drop out. I’m afraid of disappointing my mom by not being able to earn a basic degree in music. Any help would be appreciated!
It sounds like you’re feeling really overwhelmed right now, and that’s completely understandable. You’re not alone in this, and many students face similar struggles—especially in their first couple of semesters at college. Here are some steps you can take to help you get back on track:
Talk to Your Professors: Reach out to your instructors and explain your situation. They may offer you extensions or additional resources to help you catch up.
Create a Schedule: Try to set aside specific times each week dedicated to studying and completing assignments. Using a planner or digital calendar can help you keep track of deadlines.
Stay Organized: Keep all your materials and notes in one place. Consider using a folder for each class, and make a checklist of tasks you need to complete.
Form a Study Group: Joining or forming a study group can give you a sense of accountability and provide support from classmates who may help clarify concepts you find challenging.
Utilize Campus Resources: Check if your school offers tutoring services, study workshops, or writing centers. These resources can provide you with the tools you need to succeed.
Prioritize Self-Care: Make sure to take care of yourself. Get enough sleep, eat healthy meals, and take breaks when you need to. Stress can make it harder to focus.
Consider Counseling Services: If you’re feeling really overwhelmed, talking to a counselor could provide you with additional strategies to cope with stress and anxiety.
Remember, seeking help shows strength, and getting organized now can help you find a balance. You’ve already accomplished so much just by being in college—keep pushing forward! You’ve got this!