Is college a good fit for me?

Is College Right for Me?

Hey everyone,

This is my first time posting here, and I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. As a second-semester sophomore who completed all my general education requirements early, I recently decided to pursue a dual major. However, I’m starting to feel like college is adding more stress to my life than I anticipated.

While I remember a lot from my courses and grasp concepts like calculus with some help from my professor, the workload from my second major is really affecting my well-being. I’ve never experienced this level of stress with my previous classes, and I’m beginning to question if this path is truly worth it.

I’m feeling uncertain about my next steps and would really appreciate hearing other perspectives on this situation. I’ve already spoken with my advisor, who has been incredibly supportive, but I’d love to get additional insights from all of you.

Thank you in advance for your advice!

One Reply to “Is college a good fit for me?”

  1. It sounds like you’re navigating a challenging situation, and it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed, especially with a dual major. College can be a lot, and it’s important to prioritize your mental health and well-being. Here are a few thoughts that might help you sort through your feelings:

    1. Assess Your Priorities: Take a step back and evaluate why you chose to dual major in the first place. Is it a passion? A career goal? Sometimes, it helps to refocus on your “why” to see if it still aligns with your values.

    2. Consider Course Load: Dual majoring can be a heavy load, and not all courses will resonate with you. It’s okay to explore the option of potentially reducing your course load, switching to a single major, or even taking a minor if you still want to pursue diverse interests.

    3. Talk to Peers: You’re not alone in feeling stressed. Connecting with fellow students who are in similar situations can be reassuring. They might have tips or just be a listening ear.

    4. Utilize Resources: Beyond your advisor, there may be counseling services, academic workshops, or stress management resources available at your school. It’s worth checking into those!

    5. Check-In with Yourself: Consider journaling about your experience or setting aside time each week for self-reflection. This can clarify your feelings and guide your decisions moving forward.

    6. Don’t Rush: It’s okay to take your time figuring things out. College is a journey, and it’s okay to change paths if that’s what feels right for you.

    Ultimately, the decision about whether college is a good fit for you should be based on what best supports your personal and academic growth. Take the time you need to evaluate your options, and remember that it’s perfectly okay to ask for help along the way. Wishing you the best of luck!

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