Is my college social situation considered “normal” ?

Is my college social life considered “normal”?

I’m nearing the end of my second year in college, and my social interactions have been minimal. On average, I only talk to someone once every few weeks, sometimes even stretching to a month during my freshman year. From what I’ve seen and heard, most people seem to significantly expand their social networks in college, but I feel like I’m making no progress in that area. I realize that I’m not very involved in extracurricular activities beyond attending classes and fulfilling mandatory obligations, but I thought making friends would be easier, as everyone seems to say. I’m not unhappy about my lack of friendships; I’m simply trying to understand whether my experience is unique or if others share similar situations, especially since social media can create a distorted view of what college life is really like.

One Reply to “Is my college social situation considered “normal” ?”

  1. It’s completely understandable to feel this way, especially when college is often portrayed as a time for making countless friends and socializing. Many students do experience an increase in social interactions, but that doesn’t mean everyone has the same experience. Your situation is more common than you might think.

    There are several factors that can contribute to a quieter social life in college, such as personal disposition, the environment you’re in, or even just how busy you are with classes and commitments. Social media can create an unrealistic expectation, as people often share only the highlights of their experiences, making it seem like everyone else is thriving socially.

    If you’re looking to expand your social circle, consider getting involved in clubs or activities that interest you, attending events, or even just reaching out to classmates for casual conversations. It might feel daunting, but many people are also looking for connections and would likely appreciate your effort. Remember, there’s no set timeline for making friends, and it’s okay to go at your own pace. Your feelings are valid, and it’s important to focus on what feels right for you while also keeping an open mind.

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