Making Friends

Feeling Isolated in College

I’m struggling with the feeling of not having friends right now. It’s already the second semester of my freshman year, and while I connected with many people during the first semester, only a few have stuck around. I currently have three close friends, one of whom is my boyfriend, along with a few acquaintances from class.

It feels like I’m back at square one, like I did in the beginning of college, when I felt so lost. With the weather warming up, I see everyone else hanging out with their friends, and I can’t shake this sense of loneliness. I genuinely want to make new connections, but I can’t seem to remember how to do it. It feels like everyone has already found their groups, and I’m left out. I’m feeling really down about this, and I’d appreciate any advice on how to meet new people and build friendships.

One Reply to “Making Friends”

  1. I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s completely normal to go through ups and downs when it comes to friendships, especially in a new environment like college. Here are a few suggestions that might help you connect with others:

    1. Join Clubs or Organizations: Participating in clubs that interest you is a great way to meet people who share similar passions. Whether it’s a hobby, a sport, or something academic, being part of a group can foster new friendships.

    2. Attend Events: Look out for events on campus, like social mixers, game nights, or workshops. These are designed to bring students together and can be a good opportunity to meet new people in a relaxed setting.

    3. Reach Out: Don’t hesitate to initiate contact. If you have classmates, invite them to grab coffee or study together. It can be as simple as starting a conversation before or after class.

    4. Be Open and Approachable: Sometimes, making small changes in your body language or being more open to conversations can help you make connections. A smile or a friendly wave can go a long way!

    5. Use Social Media or Apps: There are often college-specific groups on social media platforms where students can meet others. Websites and apps designed for making friends can also be useful.

    6. Be Patient: Building friendships takes time. Remember that many others may feel the same way you do. It’s okay to feel lonely sometimes; it’s all part of the process.

    You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way, and it’s commendable that you’re reaching out for help. Keep putting yourself out there—you never know when or where you might meet someone who feels the same connection. Hang in there!

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