What are some basic traditions for college graduation? I’m first gen, older student, and my parents are incarcerated

I’m looking for guidance on graduation traditions since I’m a first-generation, older student, and my parents are currently incarcerated.

What are some common customs associated with college graduations? For instance, when is the best time to take photos? When should I send out announcements? If I decide to host a party, should it be right after the ceremony? Are there any traditional items I should consider having at the celebration, like a guest book?

Even though I’m in my thirties and don’t want anything too extravagant, I definitely want to celebrate this milestone. My parents can’t attend, but my spouse, sibling, and friends will be there to support me.

Since I earned my GED and didn’t have a high school graduation, I would truly appreciate any advice or anecdotes that could help me navigate this experience! Thank you!

One Reply to “What are some basic traditions for college graduation? I’m first gen, older student, and my parents are incarcerated”

  1. Congratulations on your upcoming graduation! It’s a significant achievement, and celebrating it is important, especially given your unique circumstances. Here are some basic traditions and tips to help you plan your celebration:

    1. Photos: Many graduates take photos before or after the ceremony, often in their cap and gown. Consider scheduling a time with your spouse or friends to capture these moments. Popular spots can include the campus, iconic buildings, or any places that hold significance for you.

    2. Announcements: Graduation announcements can be sent out a few weeks before the ceremony. You can customize them to include a personal message, especially since your parents can’t attend. This way, you can still share your achievement with them and other loved ones.

    3. Celebration Party: If you plan to have a party, it’s common to hold it after the ceremony. This allows you to include any festivities, like food, drinks, and activities. You can keep it casual or have a themed gathering, depending on your preference.

    4. What to Include at the Party:

    5. Guest Book: A guest book allows attendees to write messages and share their thoughts, which you can cherish for years.
    6. Food & Drinks: Consider having a mix of snacks, finger foods, or a potluck-style gathering where friends and family can bring dishes.
    7. Decor: You can decorate with items representing your field of study or colors from your school. Personal touches like photos from your journey can also be meaningful.

    8. Music: Create a playlist of songs that you enjoy or those that signify your college experience.

    9. Share Your Story: Given your unique background, you might want to share a bit of your journey with your guests. It could be a speech, but it could also be through visuals or a simple chat with those present.

    10. Keepsakes: Consider creating or gifting small tokens, like custom buttons or keychains with your graduation date, for guests to remember the day.

    11. Relax and Enjoy: Most importantly, remember to enjoy your day. It’s a celebration of your hard work, resilience, and achievements, so take the time to appreciate it.

    Your accomplishment is something to be proud of, and celebrating it in your own way can make it even more special. Enjoy your graduation day!

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