Won’t get called on when raising my hand – and participation is graded

Struggling with class participation grading

I’m currently taking a class where participation counts for 10% of my grade, and as someone who is quite introverted, it’s been a source of anxiety for me. I also have autism, which means I sometimes miss social cues. I make an effort to raise my hand every class, and occasionally I get called on, but more often than not, my hand is up for several minutes while the professor chooses to call on others. Eventually, I lower my hand because I don’t want to be a bother or disrupt the class. I currently have an A in the course, but I’m unsure about how my participation will be graded since that info isn’t available until the end of the semester. It just feels strange that even in a small class, the professor often overlooks me when I raise my hand. Am I just overthinking this?

One Reply to “Won’t get called on when raising my hand – and participation is graded”

  1. It sounds like you’re in a challenging situation, and it’s completely understandable to feel anxious about participation, especially when it’s a part of your grade. Remember that your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to be concerned about how you’re being perceived in class.

    First, it might be helpful to consider speaking directly with your professor about your concerns. They may not be aware that you’re raising your hand but aren’t getting called on, and bringing it to their attention could lead to a better understanding of your situation. You could explain that you’re making the effort to participate but feel overlooked, and perhaps they could make a point to encourage you to share your thoughts more frequently.

    Additionally, many professors are open to different ways of participating. You could ask if there are alternative methods, such as submitting questions or comments through a chat feature if your class is online or using a discussion board. This could help you feel more engaged without the pressure of speaking up in front of everyone.

    Lastly, try not to be too hard on yourself. Participating in class—especially when it’s graded—can be nerve-wracking, and it’s okay to find it difficult. Just by raising your hand, you’re showing initiative, which is a positive step. Keep focusing on your strengths, and remember that your current grade indicates you’re doing great in the class overall!

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