Frustrated with Teacher’s Treatment
Why am I being treated unfairly by my teacher? What did I even do to deserve this?
I recently asked to go to the washroom, and she snapped, “No. You’re not going anywhere.” Yet just three minutes later, she allowed a student who routinely skips class to leave. Even worse, thanks to the 15-minute rule, he returned just 10 minutes before class ended.
I’m an average B student in a class where other students are getting A’s or D’s, but for some reason, I feel like I’m receiving the most severe treatment.
There was an instance where I got one question wrong on a worksheet, and she bluntly told me to erase it. Meanwhile, another student who is barely passing had his worksheet glanced at, and she moved on without a word. Another student like me who made the same mistake also received a different reaction—she simply walked past them without addressing it.
Is it normal to be treated like this? I understand she might be having a tough day, but I can’t shake the feeling that I’m the only one receiving this kind of treatment.
Edit: Maybe I have high expectations, but I see myself as just like everyone else—neither smarter nor dumber.
It sounds like you’re really frustrated with how your teacher is treating you compared to your classmates, and it’s completely valid to feel upset about it. Teacher-student dynamics can sometimes feel unfair, especially when it seems like certain students get more leniency or understanding than others.
It’s possible that your teacher has biases or blind spots that affect how she interacts with different students. Sometimes, teachers may unintentionally hold higher expectations for certain students, believing that they can perform better, which can lead to harsher criticism. This isn’t right, and it’s understandable that you would feel singled out.
If you feel comfortable, consider talking to her about how you perceive her treatment. You might be surprised by her response. Communication can often help clarify misunderstandings, and it might also bring her attention to her approach with students. If the situation doesn’t improve, you might want to reach out to a counselor or another teacher to discuss your concerns.
Remember, everyone deserves to be treated with fairness and respect, and it’s important that your feelings are heard. You’re not alone in feeling this way, and advocating for yourself is a step in the right direction.