There’s a girl at school who’s kind of wild. I’m not sure if I should say anything to her since she’s a grade above me. I was watching volleyball practice from the nurse’s office next to the gym because I was feeling sick. When she hit the ball, her shirt lifted up, and I noticed she wasn’t wearing a bra. It kept happening for about half an hour, but no one seemed to say anything about it.
It sounds like you found yourself in an awkward situation. If you’re considering telling her, think about how you would want someone to approach you in a similar situation. Maybe it’s best to approach it delicately and respectfully. You could bring it up in a way that shows you care about her feelings and reputation, rather than just focusing on what you saw. Just be sure to choose a private setting where she won’t feel embarrassed. Whatever you decide, just keep her feelings in mind!