Did anyone have an issue where they were constantly in the way of other people when they were looking at the board in school

Has anyone ever experienced being in the way of others while they were trying to see the board in school? I’m a 5’7″ 8th grader, and I’ve always thought of myself as average at 130 pounds. But lately, I’ve become aware that when I’m sitting near the front of the classroom, I seem to block the view for my classmates, and it’s really embarrassing. At first, no one brought it up, but recently my peers have become more vocal about it. Just today, someone asked me to “move my big head and hair” because they couldn’t see. For anyone else who’s faced this, what should I do? I’m feeling really insecure about it, and it seems silly to worry, but I can’t help it.

One Reply to “Did anyone have an issue where they were constantly in the way of other people when they were looking at the board in school”

  1. It sounds really tough to be in that situation, and it’s completely understandable to feel insecure about it. Many people have experienced similar moments in school where they worry about taking up space or being in the way. Remember that everyone has their own insecurities, and it’s likely that your classmates aren’t thinking as much about your size as you are.

    Here are a few suggestions that might help:

    1. Seating Position: If possible, try to sit further back in the classroom or at an angle where you won’t block the view of the board. It might take some adjusting, but finding the right spot can make a difference.

    2. Communicate: If you feel comfortable, you could address the comments directly with your classmates, letting them know that their words hurt and you’re just trying to do your best in class. It might help to clear the air.

    3. Focus on Yourself: Remember that your worth isn’t determined by your size or how you look. Focus on what you can control, such as participating in class and being confident in your abilities.

    4. Talk to an Adult: If the comments from your classmates are bothering you, consider talking to a teacher or school counselor about it. They can provide support and might help address the situation in class.

    5. Find Support: Sometimes, talking to friends or family about how you feel can help you work through your insecurities. You might find that others have felt the same way.

    Ultimately, try to be kind to yourself. Everyone has their own experiences and challenges in school, and you’re not alone in this.

    Reply

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


Related Post

Mar 10

“Wierd” kids, what was the worst thing someone did to “bully” you?

“To all the ‘different’ kids out there, what’s the worst experience you’ve had with bullying? I grew up in a low-income household but attended a higher-class school. I didn’t face bullying until 7th and 8th grade, and when it started, it was primarily physical. In the mornings, some students would take their phones and reflect […]

Mar 25

What Strand in SHS should I chose

Choosing the Right Strand in SHS For as long as I can remember, I’ve dreamed of becoming a chef. Yet, lately, I’ve started to question whether this passion still excites me. It feels like I’m holding onto this dream simply because it’s what I wanted as a child. One factor that has muddled my thoughts […]

Mar 12

Far-Low7046

Far-Low7046 Who is this guy? He’s been posting non-stop in the subreddit and keeps talking about cleaning girls’ toilets. While that by itself isn’t odd, his other comments and posts definitely raise some eyebrows. I’d love to spark a conversation about it.